i hope that part of verve is helping people out there considering new ways of doing church to pursue their dreams, whatever they may look like. over the course of the upcoming months i hope to share stories of friends around the world who are living out some of theirs. below is a modified version of a post i wrote for the refuge blog in 2007. it was fun to revisit it and i thought it might be appropriate for communitas collective, especially since a big part of the vision here is to be a supportive place for cultivating new dreams.
enjoy.
we have a dream…
it’s not a small one.
it’s not a huge one (we’re not planning to lead any marches anytime soon)
we think it’s a simple one.
and despite our cynicism about ‘church’ (yes, we know it seeps through!) we are idealists. we wouldn’t be doing this if we had given up.
we are still “foolish” enough to think some of our dreams are possible. we think when Jesus said “your Kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” he meant that the Kingdom was possible now.
here are a few of our dreams…
we have a dream that we’d be people who took Jesus word’s seriously. this means we don’t get to just talk about it, we actually have to be forgiving, loving, sacrificing, humble. we need to be people willing to give away our stuff, care for the widows and orphans, die to ourself, hug lepers, lay down power, and make peace with our enemies.
we have a dream that all people would be valued. when we look at each other we don’t let color, socioeconomics, gender, theologies, shapes or sizes or social abilities get in the way of seeing the image of God and respecting each other’s worth, value & contribution to this world.
we have a dream that no single parent would feel like they were parenting alone. they’d have other people willing to fill in the gaps, pick up the slack, offer help, prayer, and love so it’s not so damn hard.
we have a dream that no one would feel crippled by their weaknesses. the damage from the past & present would not paralyze us from living out who God made us to be, instead, we’d use our story to help another person.
we have a dream that we’d know our neighbors. actually know them, and notice if they’re hungry or sad or lonely and do something about it if we can.
we have a dream that every child had grownups other than their parents who believed in them. we’d see all that was possible, and cheer them on in really tangible ways.
we have a dream that people of Jesus would be known for the acts of Jesus. when people hear the word “Christian” they did not cringe and immediately think “judgemental”. instead, they’d have warm feelings that were associated with the truth of Christ’s love & kindness because they experienced it from one of us at some point and couldn’t escape its power.
we have a dream that we’d be advocates. we will stand with the marginalized, oppressed, poor & unlovely, that we’d risk our pride. position, and power so that someone with none could get a little.
we have a dream that walls between churches & the community would crumble. walls that have been built because of fear and past ugly experiences would dissolve. that we’d learn to share resources, support each other & let care for human beings supersede our politics & theologies.
we have a dream that every person would feel known, loved & cared for by another human being. that we’d do our little part to help banish loneliness.
we have a dream that the refuge would be a community of dreamers.
what are some of yours?

Kathy, thanks so much for re-posting this. It’s good to be reminded that it’s still okay to hope- to dream for the ideal. I’m afraid my cynicism pours rather than seeps these days. I need to hang on to these very dreams.
Love this! I’m inspired!
cindy – oh i know all about cynicism, trust me
and honestly, i still have so much of it in me when i look out and around at the institutions and options for people and all of the craziness i have seen and experienced over the years related to “church.” i think what has given me hope is that seeing it’s actually possible and not a total and complete pipe dream, even though the whole crazy thing looks so much different from anything i thought…thanks for sharing! kirsten – thanks!
I think, Kathy, that people who truly know your hearts there at the refuge would have to feel a warm sense of Christ’s love for all people. I know it’s hard and messy and painful, but it’s inspiring to so many of us. I entirely relate to the cynical thing too…like Gary said, dreamers are idealists, and so many people don’t like idealism…but having idealists who don’t give up and really try to make it happen is so beutiful.
Kathy, what a beautiful set of dreams. I can relate to the discussion of cynicism in the comments. Dreamers are often idealists, and idealist often become cynics. I’ve been told to “get real”, to lower my expectations for the church and just focus on Jesus, accepting that the church will always be a myopic, self-focused, abusive religious system that essentially inoculates nonbelievers against faith in God. I just can’t believe that it has to be that way. Yes, the Church is comprised of flawed, broken human beings who often are poor reflections of His divine love. But I still believe that she is more than that. I have this crazy belief that God can redeem even a selfish, doubting cynic like me. If He is willing to do that, what can He do with people who actually act on their dreams, who risk living out Kingdom values? So dream on. Thanks for sharing.
gary – yeah, i don’t agree with those people who tell you to let go of some of your dreams. sure, all of us have unrealistic expectations and wish things were different, but i believe that the things you are passionate about are the ways of the kingdom and that we shouldn’t for a minute throw in the towel and give into the crazy man-made system that has been perpetuated into such a beast that we actually think that’s what “church’ is supposed to be. i think your dreams are beautiful and possible! erin – yeah, idealism and reality are definitely two different things but it is fun when in some small and wild and wonderful ways they intersect…